Monday, 8 August 2011

Understanding the End of a Relationship

Posted by Kitalima Gerald On 00:00
When a relationship ends, it does’nt end making a great sound. A relationship ends so silently that you may not even understand that your relationship has come to an end. But what would you think of doing, when you see that your partner is leaving you. What would you do to keep your relation. Would you think about leaving your partner. Would you think that you should not continue a relationship like this. Feeling like this is feeling like an idiot. Sorry for saying, but i think you should try to make your partner love you at any cost without thinking of having a break up.
Cheating in a Relationship
How to Create a Good Understanding with Your Life Partner
A proper understanding of the connection you have with your partner helps you understand the strength of your relation. Your partner may not always be able to tell why he or she is trying to leave you. There may be many type of reasons when a relationship comes to an end. By the way, considering the different characteristics of relations, it can be said that a relationship does not end overnight.The whole thing takes long time and there are definitely lots of reasons behind a break up. However, if you don’t understand that your partner does not love you as before, it may the worst understanding you have with your partner. Life shows many different situations, where it can not be always understood if your partner loves you or not.

But for the sake of keeping your relationship healthy, you must try to realize it. You must understand what your partner feels about you. Because keeping a relation without the scent of love is just nothing but working hard like an idiot. You may love your partner very much. But it is not always true that your partner would also love you in the same way. Your partner may not love you the way you love your partner. Now if you feel that your partner loves you very much, (don’t take me wrongly) you are such an idiot. Do you know, there was no relationship ever at all in a situation like this. So would you think about leaving this relationship?

Never at all, at least i would never suggest you to do that. In a situation where you are not loved by your partner is like a situation where you feel that you know everything. But whatever you know is wrong. This is an absolute end of a relationship. Now the question is How would you understand if your partner loves you or not? How would understand how strong your relationship is?

Understanding the depth of your relations is just like a difficult work, but of course not impossible. Leaving a relationship, because your partner does’nt love you is never a good choice when you love your partner strongly. What is the good choice?

The good choice is you have to make your partner love you at any cost. If you are able to do that, you are the winner and of course a successful relationship maker. Always keep a mindset of being successful at every single part of your life. Whatever the situation is you have to be successful in your life at any cost. Keeping a mindset like this actually works a lot, but most people would not agree how effective it is. Hope you have now understood that if you love your partner and your partner is trying to leave you, just don’t let that happen, do whatever you can to keep this relationship for your life. Utilize your inteligence to use many tricks. By the way, everything is fair in love and war. It is also a war of love, a war of keeping a good relationship.

Sunday, 7 August 2011

Importance of Saying " I Love You " in Relationships

Posted by Kitalima Gerald On 23:53

Making someone understand your feelings is very important in any type of relationship. If you are in a relationship that you love a lot, you must make your partner understand your feelings about the relationship. Because it is very important to have a good understanding in any relationship. If you don’t have good level of understanding with your life partner, your relationship might break up in the middle. But i am not against your feelings to hide something from your partner. But if there is something important you are hiding from your life partner, it is never going to the right direction. If you want a solid and strong relationship with your life partner, you must share your life enough with your partner to show how much you give importance to the relationship.

If you are in a relationship and you love your relationship so much, you should show your partner your interest in the relationship. There are many times people forget to show their love or inerest in their partners. In this way, their partners start thinking that their partners don’t give them much importance. Truthfully speaking, such relationships go to a wrong direction of breaking up which is never a good solution. See, you may be feeling love for someone you are in relation with. But if yoy don’t show your love, you partner would most probably think that you don’t feel any importance.

I understand that sometimes people feel that they should shoe their love. Or they just want others to love them. But imagine how long is it possible for someone to love you if you don’t love the person. When someone loves you, you will surely get a sense of satisfaction. In the same way if someone loves you, he or she would also want you to love them. If after showing love for a long time, someone does not get the satisfaction of being loved by you, one day that person would leave you. This is how most relationships break. But partners never understand the simple thing. If want love from somone, you should also love the person. Otherwise it is very impossible to continue such a relationship.

All these were about how much it is important to show your love in any relationship. It was about how much it is important to save your relationship from a break up. It was about how to have a healthy and loving relationship all the time with your partner. It is very important to understand to save your reationship. Showing your love creates a strong bonding with your partner. Building a strong relationship is not possible until or unless both of the partners feel that both of them love each other. If one is feeling that the other one loves from heart and he (she) takes the enjoyment all the time, once the relationship would surely break. Because the other one is not getting the expections from the relationship fulfilled. Ultimately the relationship breaks up. Sometimes, it can be seen that the relationship does not break. But the partners keep it for a significant reason of their life. But these relationships become stale day by day leaving the partner apart.

Consider very carefully, how long would you like to love somone who does not feel any importance for you. May be, in the beginning, you will show your love so much that your partner understands your feelings. But after a long time of showing your love and giving,much importance to your partner, if you feel that your partner does not feel any importance for you, you will most likely break up.

This is what ultimatly happens in a relationship where love is from one side only. If your relationship is not one sided and if you feel that your partner truly loves you and also love your partner, show your love as well. Don’t just take enjoyment having your partner loving,you so much. Remember, the more you will do this, the more you will loose your partner from life. By the way, most people don’t understand it and day by day create a big reason to break up with their partners unknowingly. Hopefully, after reading this article, you will try to save your love and your life partner and your relationship

How to Build Trust in Your Relationship

Posted by Kitalima Gerald On 23:46
Building trust in any relationship is extremely important to keep your relationship healthy. It is not very difficult to build trust with your partner. It only needs some clarifications on few things that we don’t become very careful about while building a good relationship. First of all, you need to understand the importance of building trust with your partner. You need to realize how much building trust is important for your relationship to grow. You should also realize how much trust makes your relationship strong and trustworthy. Once you realize the importance of understanding all these things, you would sure start to build trust with your partner with an expectation of a healthy relationship. So if you have made up your mind and want to know how to build trust gradually, continue to read…… Love yourself and your partner
Loving yourself is fine. However, it is normal feeling for every human being. But when you are in a relationship, try to give your partner some importancw that you give for yourself. Definitely, you may love your partner so much. But if your partner does’nt understand your love, there is really no need of having love for your partner. A relationship like this feels very stale. It does’nt give true happiness to our heart. So what is important to make it working for your relationship. You need to build trust so much in your relation that your partner does’nt become doubtful about you and your love. You would surely try to build trust if you love yourself. 

You may not understand my words. I don’t say that you don’t love your partner. But my thought is a little different here. You surely love your partner. But for most people in the world, this love comes after the love of your own self. I trying to be a liitle pratical here. But if consider carefully, you would undestand that somewhere you love your partner because you love yourself. So you want someone to accompany you, to love you and to be with you all the time. So at first, love yourself. You will automatically start feeling love for your partner. So you will realize the importanc of building trust in your relationship. In this way, loving yourself and your partner should be the first step before you take steps to build trust. 
Have a nice friendship with your partner
Friendship is the most important relationship in the world. Because it can create connections with just anyone. Having a new connection with someone unknown gives a feelling of comfort and trust when a relationship starts with that person. All of these started from a connection that started with a friendship. So friendship has much more power to create a sharing attitude in your partner’s mind. So try to like a true friend more than a life partner. Because sometimes, there are things you can share with your friend, but not with your life partner. Just imagine, if you can become a good friend a lot more than just a life partner, it can be quite easy for your partner to open up in front of you. This is the reason why a relationship starting from a friendship much stronger than a relationship that started directly without any friendship. 

Sometimes, sharing with a friend is easier than sharing with your life partner. So try to become a friend at first to your partner. Let your partner become comfortable to share things with you. It will automatically build trust in your partner’s mind for you and your relationship will keep growing stronger. 
Have a positive attitude
Having a positive attitude is extremely important before start building trust with your partner. Just like, love does’nt have a single definition as it has different definitions for everyone, different people have different way of thinking about love and life. Some people have positive attitude that their partner’s love them. Some people have negetive attitude that their partners don’t love them. It is extremely difficult for people like this to build trust. Because they themselves are very doubtful about their partners. Truthfully speaking, the number of people with negetive attitude like this is much more. So don’t have a mentality like this before you try to build trust in your relationship. Believe me, you have to believe your partner at first. Then it is possible for your partner to believe you. Otherwise building trust is never possible.
Become truthful to your partner
If you want your partner to share everything with you, you have to at first share things with your partner. Make your partner feel how much importance you give. If your partner is a little doubtful in the beginning, take it normally. It is quite normal and you should not bother thinking so much about it. You may keep some secrects to yourself. But you should always try to share as much as possible to help your partner have a feeling of trust on you. 

Your relationship would surely become stronger and successful if your partner start sharing secrects with you. Be patient and give your partner enough time to think about you. Let your partner feel your importance in life. Then, your partner would surely have trust on you. Always remember, building trust in a relationship takes time. It also depends on the mentality of both the partners. Trust is built gradually. Your partner will not have trust on you overnight. Have a solid understanding on these things and then, utilize your intellience to make your relationship work.
  • About Us

  • About Us